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Thursday, March 10, 2016

Lessons from Dearborn

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July 27, 2015

The part of the chapter that I would like to focus on this morning is beginning in verse 20 there, where the Bible reads.

“Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us, unto Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages world without end, Amen.”

And this morning I want to talk about a great experience that we just had a couple of days ago, we did a great soul winning marathon in Dearborn, Michigan on Friday. And there were so many great lessons from that day and so the title of the sermon this morning is lessons from Dearborn, and I am going to talk about the great event that we had just a couple of days ago in Dearborn, Michigan and honestly this is the verse that kept coming to mind throughout the day, verse 20, where the Bible says, unto Him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think according to the power that worketh in us. That was the verse that kept coming to me throughout the day because God honestly did more than we had ask or thought that he would do. It was just such an amazing success and of course God gets all the glory. But the first lesson is found right here in this passage where it says in verse 21,

“Unto Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages world without end, Amen.”

Now first of all before I get into the lessons from Dearborn, let me just explain to you what we did. We travelled to Dearborn, Michigan. Paul Wittenberg and I, and we assemble together with just a bunch of people from all over that area, we just put a call out on the internet, on Facebook, on YouTube to people who listen to the sermons that are preached here at Faithful Word Baptist church, they listen online and we just put a call out that we were going to have a great soul winning marathon in Dearborn, Michigan where we were going to spend the day there knocking doors and doing soul winning and we had 62 people show up to go soul winning in Dearborn Michigan which is amazing because the most people we ever even had at a soul winning marathon here was 50 people a few times. We had 62 people show up.2 of them had turned out to be Judases, so will say 60 soul winners showed up. We had 46 people saved in the course of the day’s work and we had 7 people baptized and we also handed out over 1400 copies of our documentary film “Marching to Zion" in the Arabic version.

Now the first thing, that I think is a great lesson from Dearborn is that great works of God are not done by one person but they are done by an assembly of people. You know the Bible says here that God is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think unto Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus, throughout all ages world without end, Amen. That means it does not matter whether we’re talking about the time of Christ or whether we’re talking about 2015. In all ages Christ is glorified in the church and the Bible said that Jesus told Peter “upon this rock I will build my church and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it”, and also the Bible said that the church is the pillar and ground of the truth.

Now I am not going to go into a big sermon on what the church means but we that know our Bibles know that the church means an assembly. The church means a congregation; it’s a local body of believers that are banded together for the work of God. You are sitting in a church; now a lot of people say “Oh the church is in your heart.” No, the church is right here, assembled, it’s a group of people, it’s a congregation and God uses the group and just to illustrate that, I was there in Dearborn, knocking doors doing soul winning and I was excited and I was doing my best and before lunch in the first few hours of the day I was literally running up to the doors, I was so excited. And I worked hard the whole day and you know how many people I got saved that day? Only one. The whole day of working hard, preaching, talking to person after person I had one saved but you know we had as a team? 46 saved, why? Because there are 60 people out there doing the work and one person cannot do a great work for God like 60 people can do a great work for God and that is why the church is so important and we have way too many lone rangers across America today that are not a part of the church, they are not plugged in, they are not part of the team and on their own. They are not going to accomplish as much as if they would get in a local body of baptized believers and get out there and do the work of God with the church which is God’s institution which he designed for his work in the New Testament, the church my friend, it’s about churches, we need great churches to do great works for God today across the United States of America. The Bible says,

“One of you shall chase a thousand two of you will put ten thousand to flight.” And so you can do more as a team, and that kind of leads me into the second lesson from Dearborn that there is a lack of leadership amongst God people today in United States of America, there is a lack of leadership. Go to Romans chapter number 10, Romans chapter 10. While you are turning to Romans 10, I’ll read for you from Matthew chapter 9 verse 36; Jesus, when he saw the multitudes, the Bible says in verse 36,

“He was moved with compassion on them, because they fainted, and were scattered abroad, as sheep having no shepherd. Then saith he unto his disciples, The harvest truly is plenteous, but the laborers are few; Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth laborers into his harvest.”

So, there are a lot of sheep today without a shepherd. They don’t have a church; they don’t have a pastor leading them, the word pastor mean shepherd. They are like sheep having no shepherd, they are scattered abroad, they are not joined in a congregation and Jesus says

“The harvest truly is plenteous, but the laborers are few; Pray ye therefore the Lord of the harvest, that he will send forth laborers into his harvest.” Look at Romans 10, it says something similar, verse 13

“For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved. How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? And how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? And how should they hear without a preacher”

And here is the key, verse 15

“And how shall they preach, except they be sent? as it is written, How beautiful are the feet of them that preach the gospel of peace, and bring glad tidings of good things!” See preaching the Gospel is always associated with your feet because the Bible said, “Go ye into all the world and preach the gospel to every creature”

And that’s what you do with your feet and the Bible says, “How shall they preach except they be sent.”

We need some churches that will send people out into the harvest to gather and reap that which the Lord has given us to reap and too many churches today are not doing the sending because there is a lack of leadership, there is a lack of pastors that will unite and inspire and encourage the people and send them out to do a great work for God. And if you are not being sent, how shall you go? I can honestly say, I grew up an independent Baptist, I got saved as a 6 year old boy and from the time I got saved, I had a burning desire to want to get other people saved from the time I was 6. But you know what I never did? Get anybody saved.

When I was 6,7,8,9, 10,11,12,13,14,15,16, all that time I wanted to get someone saved yet I never got anyone saved and I tried and I wanted to and I even went to my youth pastor as a teenager and said “let’s go out and get people saved, can we go out and knock doors or something, just from reading the Bible and hearing about things” and they never send me. They would never take me and train me and teach me and show me things, then right around the time I turn 17 I got into an independent fundamental Baptist church and within two weeks I was out there knocking doors. I was being sent into the harvest and I was out there learning how to win people to Christ. But it took me over a decade to get there because how can I preach when I wasn’t sent? And this is the problem today in America, a lack of leadership amongst God’s people.

You know why Dearborn shows that stat? Because of the fact that 60 some people showed up and they are driving in from Ohio, they are driving in from Toronto, Canada, driving in from all over Michigan. People literally came from as far as Virginia and South Carolina and many of them had never knocked a door in their life. Never been soul winning. A lot of them. But they wanted to do it, they are zealous, they are excited but they are not being sent. They had to go and travel to Michigan, to Detroit. To be sent out soul winning. It’s a shame today, that there aren’t local leaders in their area that at leading them to the charge and firing them up and getting them up there soul winning and saying like Jehovah of all come with me and see my zeal for the Lord, that the leadership, not go but come with me and see my zeal for the Lord.

Another great lesson from Dearborn and if you would flip over to Matthew chapter 10, but while you’re turning there I will give you another great lesson from Dearborn is that you should not believe what the media tells you or what you read on the internet. There are so many lies and so much dis-information out there in the news media today, you can’t believe everything you hear and that lesson was very powerfully illustrated in Dearborn on Friday because if you read the media reports about Dearborn, here is what they say “oh, you can’t go soul winning in Dearborn they are under Sharia Law” who has heard that before that Dearborn is under Sharia Law, yeah, that’s why they have a honey baked ham, that’s why they have a pot-belly pig sandwich shop, that’s why they have a catholic church and a Baptist church and a bar and a strip club because they are under radical Islamic Sharia law. But if you are one who is really tuned in to the conservative talk radio man, you know that the Muslims have taken over and brought in Sharia Law in America and Dearborn is the city where they are testing it. It’s like look it’s a complete lie, I was there, I walked the streets of Dearborn and I boldly made known the gospel of Jesus Christ without any problems what so ever.

The Bible says in Proverbs 14 verse 15 “The simple believeth every word, but the prudent man looketh it well to his goings”

And at just when we announced that we were doing this soul winning campaign in Dearborn, so many people were writing to me saying we were worried about you, we were scared for you. You are going to get killed, you are going to get beheaded, they are going to kill you there, you can’t do it, it’s horrible. And someone brought up, it’s Detroit! And literally the way that America perceive Detroit, is like it’s some kind of a post-apocalyptic, like from a sci-fi movie or something where it’s like a failed state or something, like a failed state in a third world country, enter Detroit at your own risk, the police have completely pulled out of Detroit and the gangs have just taken over and run things but honestly it’s all hyped up is what it is. And you can see why the devil likes to hype that up so that the gospel won’t get to Dearborn and so the gospel won’t get to Detroit when it’s wide into harvest.

Okay. Now, one other thing I saw a video on YouTube because people are sending me video. Look you’re crazy going in there to Dearborn, you are on a suicide mission and they send us this video “Christians are stoned in Dearborn” and the police just stand by and let it happen as Christians are stoned in Dearborn, so I click on the video and watched it and here is what the stoning was? They were throwing empty water bottles at them, that’s not exactly a stoning when somebody throws an empty water bottle at you and then what are they going to throw next? Raw hot dogs? And pump you with raw hotdogs? But here is the thing, if you watch the video and they try to film it in a way that its really deceptive just say the title of the video is deceptive “Christian stoned in Dearborn” and then there are thousands of comment of people saying “oh yeah! This is real, wow they are being stoned, I saw, it’s right there in the video”, are you insane? Its water bottles. That’s not what it means in the Bible when they say stoned them with stones. But, basically in the video what they do is, this Christian groups going there and they go to a Muslim parade, it’s their Muslim even that they hold once a year, they show up at their parade basically holding signs that say “Muhammad is a pedophile” then they had, which he is but you know it does not make any sense to go there and hold up a sign at their parade, and then they had a severed pig’s head on a stick and they are severed pig’s head on a stick through their Muslim parade and then somebody curses them out and throws water bottles at them. But think about, what if you were having a church picnic at a Christian church and a bunch of Jews or something came with blasphemous of signs of Jesus saying hey you know, Jesus is blank this and that and whatever, you’d probably throw an empty arrow head at them yourself. So what I am saying is you can’t just believe everything that the media tells you.

When we were there literally 60 soul winning going out and knocking over 1400 doors and listen, we didn’t trim the message, we didn’t war down the message of the gospel. I flat out told this people, I said “look you are not saved” and you know according to the Bible you will go to hell unless you receive the Lord Jesus Christ as your savior, but I told them nicely in love, I want them to get saved I wasn’t doing this bull horning, sign holding obnoxious in your face stupidity. But actually love people and want them to be saved and go preach to them in love, speaking the truth and love not trimming the message, boldly proclaiming that Jesus is the son of God but not going there with the intent of just grand standing chest pounding and making a YouTube video. No, the goal is more souls, not just making a big show and fueling people’s fear and whatever.

Which leads me to my next lesson in Dearborn and by the way when we were there, the Muslims, we’d go to their door and go to preach the gospel there and they came to us with trays of cookies. You know far from being beheaded, far from being stoned we were offered trays of assorted cookies and they given us cold water bottles. Paul Wittenberger had a lady get into her car and drive around the block to chase him down to give his group water and everything. Far from being stoned or whatever. And I am going to get more into that a little bit later in the sermon so don’t jump to conclusions about what I am saying. But honestly you can’t believe everything you hear in the media, you got to go there and see things for yourself and take anything the media tells you with a grain of salt. See a lot of God’s people realize that the liberal media is lying to you but lot of them still think that they can serve the media is telling the truth they don’t realize that all of it is controlled by the devil. Ok, both sides, but anyway look at Matthew 10, the Bible says in verse 26,

“Fear them not therefore” And I want you to notice those three words fear them not, “Fear them not therefore, for there is nothing covered, that shall not be revealed; and hid, that shall not be known. What I tell you in darkness, that speak ye in light: and what ye hear in the ear, that preach ye upon the housetops and fear not them” Notice those three words,

“Fear not them which kill the body, but are not able to kill the soul: but rather fear him which is able to destroy both soul and body in hell. Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? And one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father, but the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows. So we have ‘fear them not’, ‘fear not them’, and ‘fear ye not therefore’, three times. Hey look, don’t be afraid and in the context here, he sent them out soul winning. That’s what Matthew 10 is about. He send them out two by two to preach the kingdom of God and he said don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid, Look, God is going to protect you this people can’t hunt, they can kill the body, they can’t kill the soul. God is going to go with you and even when Jesus Christ gave the great commission he said “Lo, I am with you always, even at the end of the world”, and so we have nothing to fear, and so my next lesson from Dearborn is don’t let fear stop you from serving God because even though we had an amazing turn out, and we had 60 people show up.

I know that there were a lot more people who thought about showing up and didn’t show up because they were afraid. Because they were nervous back, because they bought into some of the fear mongering and they heard some of the stuffs and said “hey, I better just play it safe and just kind of sit back and see what happens.”But you know what, praise God for the people who overcame their fear or didn’t have the fear in the first place and just showed up to boldly make known the mystery of the gospel. They earned the crowns, they went out and were a part of a great work for God, they got to be a part of an epic soul winning event but fear held back many. Don’t let fear stop you from serving God, preachers today are afraid to preach what is right, people are afraid to go out and knock a door, people are afraid to give the gospel to their family members, to their co-workers, to their loved ones and fear is paralyzing us today as Christians and the Bible says “The wicked flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous are bold as a lion.” And Bible says “God has not given us the spirit of fear but of power and of love and of a sound mind.”

Fear is not coming from God, the only fear that we ought to have is of God himself and God said go. He said go into all the world, He said go into every creature, He said go into the highways and hedges and compel to come in that my house may be filled. But I learned another lesson in Dearborn also Romans chapter 2, go to Romans chapter 2. Another great lesson from Dearborn on Friday. Romans chapter 2, is that, Christians have ruined their testimony with Muslims. Christians have ruined their testimony with Muslims. I was out soul winning and for a couple of hours there was a reporter that wanted to go soul winning with me. He wanted to tag along with me, and I said “sure come along”. And a lot of people said, “you take unsaved people soul winning with you?” Absolutely, because sometimes they get’s saved. I have taken unsaved people out soul winning and then I gave the gospel to somebody and finally pray with them, and then they’d say “you know what, I just prayed that prayer too, I need to be saved in God’s name”.

I had a good friend come out one time and his dad was not saved and he took his dad soul winning all afternoon. His dad was going to United Methodist Church not any Wednesday and he took his dad soul winning all afternoon and at one of the doors his dad said “you know what, I prayed that prayer too, I just got saved” and then he got baptized that night at the Sunday night service, praise God for that. Why won’t we bring out more the merrier, who wants to hear the gospel come along.

So I had this reporter coming along, he is a young guy, he is 24 years old and he was a devout Muslim and he was soul winning with me for hours, so he heard me preaching the gospel and presenting the gospel and then between doors I preach the gospel at the door then I preach the gospel to him between doors. So, he was getting it double, triple, quadruple, you know, I am talking to him and trying to convince him and preach to him between every door. And as I was preaching to him, some of the things I was saying seemed to resonate with him but then here is what he brought out.

As I am making sense to him and the things I am saying are resonating with him, here is what he felt back on, he said this well let me ask you this he said “do you believe that it’s okay for people to go to bed together before they are married” and I said “absolutely not, of course not” and he said well we don’t either but he said 80% of the Christians that I know that’s what they do. And he said “I am a virgin and I am going to be when he gets married “he said. And I told him, well, I respect that and I am glad that you kept yourself pure and I said “for your information, when I got married I was a virgin as well” so not all Christians are going out and committing fornication, it’s not everybody is doing it, but I told him and said, “you know what, I respect that, I appreciate that you kept yourself pure” and I said “but you are kidding yourself if you think that all of your fellow Muslims are keeping themselves totally pure” because that just isn’t true.

You know there is a lot of corruption amongst the Muslims as well, but in his mind though, in his inner circle of friends and people, they are keeping it pure, he is keeping it pure and then he looks at Christianity as being a fornicating, permissive, promiscuous religion and then I am sure that the supreme court decision on Friday probably didn’t increase his view of Christian America very much when our country is institutionalizing and condoning the most vile, filthy, disgusting behavior on this planet. While his buddies over in Syria are thrown them off the roof of a building and he looks at us and saying “you’re condoning this filth, you’re condoning this smug, you’re promoting this garbage” he said “look you guys believe that fornication is wrong” he said “you are all a bunch of fornicators” and that shows how Christians can ruin their testimony where here is a Muslim who is hearing the Gospel but in his mind he is thinking “you know what, no, this is the religion of permissiveness and promiscuity. This is a dirty religion; we are living a clean life.” That’s what he is thinking in his mind.

You know isn’t that terrible though, we don’t have the reputation for being pure and for being righteous where they could look at us and say, “you know what, this people is leaving a clean life.” And look don’t get me wrong, I am not praising Islam this morning., Islam is a wicket false religion that’s taking people to hell, but you know what, it’s sad when Christian America has lower morals than some of this other countries, it’s really an embarrassment to the cause of Jesus Christ.

Look what Romans 2 says, it says in verse 21, “Thou therefore which teachest another, teachest thou not thyself? thou that preachest a man should not steal, dost thou steal? Thou that sayest a man should not commit adultery, dost thou commit adultery? thou that abhorrest idols, dost thou commit sacrilege? Thou that makest thy boast of the law, through breaking the law dishonourest thou God?” For the name of God is blasphemed among the Gentiles through you, as it is written.”

Now the context of this is speaking to the Jews, Paul is talking to the Jews and saying you are a bad testimony to the gentiles, because of your stealing, and adultery and blasphemy. You have spoiled your testimony to the gentiles. But couldn’t we also apply this to modern Christian America and say the name of Jesus is blasphemed among you throughout the world as it is written. Isn’t that sad? And this scripture applies. Go to Psalm, actually go to Matthew 13, go to Matthew chapter 13, I will just read for you from Psalm 126. Here is another lesson from Dearborn, the lesson from Dearborn is that soul winning works, soul winning works and so many people are down on soul winning and they don’t think it works and there were so many naysayers going into this thing. There were so many people who said it’s going to be a failure, it’s going to be a flop, you are not going to accomplish anything, you are not going to get these Muslims saved, you are not going to get anybody saved, you are wasting your time, nobody wants to hear you and I got so many emails saying I live in Dearborn and I don’t want to hear what you have to say and we don’t care about this and blab blah blah… and so many people try to discourage it and bring you down telling you, it’s not going to work, it’s not going to work.

And look, whenever you try and do something for the Lord, you know, some things work better than others and sometimes things don’t work that well. But you know what, you never know unless you try and you get out there and work and try things but you know what in the end you are always a winner if you are preaching the true gospel of Jesus Christ. God always gives us the victory; He always causes us to conquer, in the end, spiritually. But there are so many naysayers, in fact there some guy who wrote an article for the Huffington post which is a pretty big news organization mocking our efforts to go to Dearborn and go soul winning. And he said, this people in Dearborn, they don’t even speak Arabic, they are third, fourth, fifth generation. Fifth generation? They didn’t come in the 1800’s, people okay, get real. But he is like, oh these people are third, fourth, fifth nay, none of them speak Arabic and blah blah. Look in the neighborhoods we went 90% of the people who answered the door were Arabic and a 100% of them spoke Arabic. There was no one Arab that came to the door that was not fluent in Arabic, not one.

So in the movie that we were handed out in Arabic was perfect. I mean they wanted it, they said they’re going to watch it and everything ok. And we talked to them, and these are third, fourth, fifth generation, we talked to people that said “I was in Palestine two weeks ago, I was in Syria a month ago.” I mean a lot of them were freshly there, but he naysayers will tell you, hey, soul winning doesn’t work and even the Christians will tell you, oh soul winning does not work and you know who is saying soul winning doesn’t work, it’s the Christians who don’t want to get off their lazy behinds and go out and do something for the Lord, so they want to tell themselves. “Oh, it doesn’t work so I am just fine sitting on my lazy we are in because it doesn’t work anyway.” No, it works, you don’t work. Whenever anybody says to me soul winning doesn’t work, I say no, you don’t work. Because if you work, it works.

And the Bible promises that it will work because the Bible says in Psalm 126, “They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.” And I love what I heard a preacher say once, he said “if you are not seeing people saved, either the gospel not being preached or the gospel lost its power” those are the only two options. If people are not getting saved, the gospel is not being preached or the gospel has lost its power and I say Amen to that. The Bible says,

“He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him.”

Now, the people that we got saved, we got 46 people saved as a team, as a group effort throughout the whole day. “Yeah, but how many of them were Muslims?” First of all I say who cares, a soul is a soul, I don’t care who I wanted to look, you know, a lot of people who wanted the Lord were black, praise God, so what, a soul is a soul.

But you know what, many Muslims, they get saved. I don’t have the exact number of how many of the people we got saved were Muslim. I don’t think it’s that important. Just to go real conservative, I would at least 10 of the people that we won to Christ were Muslims, just to be real conservative. But it might have been a lot more than that; I don’t know the exact percentages. But many of the Muslims got saved. Now most of the Muslims that got saved were young adults or teenagers. You know they are not going to be the died on the wall, 40, 50, 60 years all, you know most of Muslims that we got saved were teenagers and young adults, but you know what, that’s the best time to reach them. And most of the Muslims that I want the Christ in my lives were in that age group of early 20s to young teens because that’s the best times to reach them. I heard another preacher say this, you know he went out soul winning and somebody asked him how many people did you get saved, he said “two and half” and they said “oh I get it! Two adults and one small child he said no “two small children and one adult because the adult have already wasted half his life,” Because it’s better to get people saved, the younger, the better. Thank God I got saved while I was 6. I wouldn’t want to get saved when I was 60. I want to get saved when I was 6.

And so you get to them when they are kids and teenagers and young adults and guess what, they have been less brain washed by the lies of their religion. And so thank God many people did get saved that were Muslims but you know what I wouldn’t give a rip if we went in there and preach to a bunch of Muslims and then the only people who got saved were agnostics or Catholics or whatever, because the soul is a soul. And I just want to get people saved.

And I even told people, I said, “You know what?” I said, “If I spend the whole day in Dearborn and I don’t get anybody saved, then I am going to the Detroit ghetto that night and I am going to go get somebody saved in the Detroit ghetto. I am getting somebody saved by hook or by crook. But thank God we got a bunch of people saved in Dearborn itself, we didn’t have to go into the, in or at your own risk, to Detroit.

I have gone soul winning in places like that. If you show up at 11 am, you show up at 2 pm and you are wearing a suit and a tie and a Bible, they are not just going to blow you away. The people that are getting killed in Detroit and the people that are getting killed in South Chicago and Gary, Indiana, you know what they are? Gang members and police officers. If you’re not involved in the drug war, you are usually going to be fine. People are afraid of their own shadow. And God will protect us. He is a shield unto them that put their trust in Him.

We’ll look at Matthew chapter 13, because I really want to emphasize this thing that soul winning works. And you say, “What you mean by soul winning?” Here is what I simply mean by soul winning. Walking up to someone and opening your Bible and showing them how to be saved. Just opening your mouth and telling them the Gospel using scripture. And it is a biblical work because the Bible says, “the fruit of the righteous is the tree of life and he that winneth souls is wise.” Bring forth fruit unto the Lord, winning souls.

The Bible also talks about the unbelieving husband being won by the wife. It is a scriptural terminology that we use and let me tell you something, it works. How can it not work? How could preaching the gospel not get somebody saved, eventually? I mean that is what the Bible says what happened.

But a lot of people are mixed up on this thing of what it means to go forth and weeping, bearing precious seed because there is even an organization known as Bearing Precious Seed. And this organization Bearing Precious Seed, you know, I thank God that they print good Bible versions. You know they print the King James and they print other good Bible versions in foreign languages. But you know a lot of people associated with that ministry, they think, “Oh yeah, here is the answer! We print a bunch of Bibles, we print a bunch of tracts and give them out to people and that is how we get the gospel out.”

But you know, when the Bible says bearing precious seed, you know that it is talking about opening your mouth and preaching, right? It is not talking about handing out a leaflet, my friend. In fact, I’ll prove it to you. What does the Bible say? Matthew 13 let Jesus interpret. The Parable of the Sower. What’s the sower? Sowing the seed, right? The Bible said bearing precious seed, okay; Jesus will interpret it for us.

“Hear ye therefore, the Parable of the Sower, we’re in Matthew 13, verse 19. when anyone what? When anyone what..? (Audience: Hear!)

When anyone heareth, the word of the kingdom and understandeth not, then cometh the wicked one and catcheth away that which was sown in his heart. This is he which received seed by the way side. But he that received the seed into stony places, the same is he that heareth the word, and anon with joy receiveth it; Yet hath he not root in himself, but dureth for a while: for when tribulation or persecution ariseth because of the word, by and by he is offended. He also that received seed among the thorns is he that heareth the word; and the care of this world, and the deceitfulness of riches, choke the word, and he becometh unfruitful. But he that received seed into the good ground is he that heareth the word.”

Group 1, hear is the word, group 2, hear is the word, group 3, hear is the word, group 4, hear is the word.

What does it mean, my friend? To sow the seed. It’s when you preach the word, somebody hears it, somebody hears it today. And too many people are using this cop out of a gospel tract and I know this isn’t popular, people get real offended when I preach this but you know what, like it or lump it, it’s the truth and somebody needs to stand up and say it. That going up to somebody and giving them a tract is not preaching the gospel. And it’s a cop out where you say, “Oh, I gave that person the gospel because you gave him a tract because most of those tracts go in the trash and even if people read them, they don’t usually understand them anyway. You know, the best way to get somebody saved, the biblical way to get somebody say biblically bearing the precious seed is to walk up to you and open my mouth and talk to you and you hear the word of God. That was a hearing. Hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing, hearing.

Oh, here, read this. Now what the Bible says, see, God has chosen the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe. And so we need to go out and open our mouths, man, woman, boy and girl. Open your mouth and tell people about Jesus. And it’s a lot easier to hand them a piece of paper and then run away like a coward than it is to open the Bible and say let me show you how to be saved, to open our mouth, and talk to them and say, hey, Romans 3:23, Romans 3:10, John 3:16, John 3:18, John 3:36, John 6:47, whatever and preach to them and speak to them and the Holy Spirit upon you. This is what gets the job done. “He that goeth forth and weepeth bearing precious seed.”

But you know what we see a lot of today? First of all there is no going forth than weeping. Because you know what the weeping there represents? That you care. You know, why would you weep? Because you care. Because you love people. Now here is the thing. If you love someone, you know what you are going to do if you love someone? You are going to walk up to them and you are going to explain to them lovingly how to be saved. Right? You are going to talk to them, you are going to be nice to them and you are going to try to convince them to get saved. Think about someone you love that’s not saved. How would you talk to them? You know maybe it’s a mother, father, a brother, a sister, a friend at work. How would you talk to them? You would be nice and you would try to plead with them and beg them to be saved and you show them scripture and you’d be nice. Okay, would you walk in to thanksgiving, if you really wanted to get your extended family saved, would you walk in to thanksgiving with a bull horn? “Hey everybody, you’re going to hell! You need to repent, Do you know you’re on your way to hell today, you’re deceived”

You know, here is why you wouldn’t do it, because it wouldn’t work. And you know what? If bull horning worked, if holding up obnoxious stupid signs worked and bull horning worked, you know what, I’d do it. I’d do it. I mean if they worked, let’s do it. You know why? Because I care. Because I love people and want them to be saved. And if it takes a bull horn to get them saved, I’ll use a bull horn to get them saved. If it takes an obnoxious stupid sign, I’ll take an obnoxious stupid sign. But you know what? It doesn’t work. It’s stupid. It’s not biblical. No, it’s nowhere, it’s not found in the Bible. It’s not the example we see in the Bible.

You know we look at the great soul winners in the Bible, did they ever trim and sugar coat the message? Absolutely not! But you know what they did though? They spoke the truth and loved. And you know what, they did point out sometimes common ground. But they didn’t trim and see the problem with people like Rick Warren, they’ll get up and talk with the Muslims and find the common ground but then they forget to tell them the part about how they are all going to hell and how they need to repent and repent of their Islam and believe on the Lord Jesus Christ for salvation. Okay, that’s the problem.

But you know we see the Apostle Paul on Marseille and what does he do? He says to them, “you’re too superstitious.” Is that a compliment or an insult? Doesn’t look you’re too superstitious. And he says you have an altar to the unknown god. He said, “Him therefore you ignorantly worship, I’ll declare unto you.” Let me tell you who the unknown god is. He is the only God. Okay. But he also will point out, hey; here is what some of your poets have said. And basically he will find common ground and talk. For example, Stephen, when he preaches to the Jews, he talks about all the stuffs that they agree on and everything. But then he says. “Look, here is where you guys are wrong.”

And we see all throughout the Bible examples of people like Jesus and the Apostles talking to people and giving them the gospel and so forth. And you know what, there is nothing wrong with being nice to people. And there is nothing wrong with saying. “Hey, here is something that we agree on.” Here is what we both agree on. But now let me show you the part that we need, that we don’t agree on. And that you need to see here from the word of God. But this obnoxious stupid bull horning, not only does it not work, this street preaching, open air of angelism street preaching and tract distribution and sign… you know what? These bunch of fools, not only did they not get people saved, even if you talk to them, they will tell you, “oh, it’s so amazing, we had two people saved last year.” Yeah, there is somebody dying every few seconds and going to hell and you getting two people saved a year, that ain’t going to cut it. You are failing. But then they say, “Oh, we are doing it and we go out there and we suffer prosecution.” No, you’re going out and making people mad because you’re being an idiot. And then you’re saying we’re being persecuted. They are throwing water bottles at you because you’re acting a fool. And what you’re doing makes no sense and then it poisons the well for people like us who want to come in and do the real big boy soul winning. You know, we want to come in and do the big boy, the real soul winning, the mature Christian soul winning, the real thing that actually works with the actual tear in the eye. And then a lot of people are hardened and we have to undo the damage that these other idiots have done. And they are hurting the cause of Christ. It’s really a joke, my friend.

But honestly, soul winning works. A tear in the eye works. Bearing precious seed works. Using the word of God and preaching house to house, every house, highways and hedges, its works today. And that’s why the devil hates it. I don’t think the devil even cares about these fools going to a queer pride parade and screaming and bull horning and holding signs to a bunch of people that are already reprobates anyway. What he does care, and want to stop is when people actually go forth weeping bearing the precious seed and go house to house and go with the Bible and the true gospel and a tear in the eye and love in their hearts and the Holy Ghost upon them because they get things done that works. Tracts don’t work, street preaching doesn’t work. Obnoxious signs don’t work and I’ll say it on blue in the face and your tracts, your tracts ministry is a cop out where you make people think that they are getting all these people saved because we handed out ten thousand tracts. No. You need to open your mouth and preach and not be scared and shy of doing what God told you to do, my friend.

But here is the biggest lesson of Dearborn. Here is the biggest most important lesson. I’ll close on this lesson. Go to John chapter 4. John chapter 4, here is the most important lesson from Dearborn. I’ll give you a quick review of the lessons learned in Dearborn.

Number 1: Is that God uses the congregation, uses the church. He uses the assembly of people to get great works done for Him. 60 people teamed up. 46 people saved, 7 baptized. You say how did you baptize 7 people? You know, you better not been sprinkling like a protestant, no. We baptized them in a hotel swimming pool. Say, sea here is water, you know, who can forbid water that these should be baptized. We paraded into the hotel swimming pool; we went to this fancy hotel, The Henry. We walked into The Henry autograph collection and we marched into the indoor swimming pool at The Henry with like 40 some people and we lined up 7 people and there were other people just swimming there. Families on vacation and the kids, all the kids were playing and joking around. Next thing you knew, all the kids were just lined up on the edge of the hot tub. And I was like, “I baptize you my brother in the name of the Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost and we were baptizing 7 people in the swimming pool. It was exciting.

And all of the Baptists are dead. “Hey, look, I don’t have to roll in the wild and act like a chimpanzee up here and act like a two year old just to prove, hey, this isn’t a dead church. I am going to act like a two year old to prove it and run around and whoop and holler and act like an idiot. ” No. And you know what? Barking like a dog and rolling in the aisles, that’s not exciting. Being a holy roller. You know what’s exciting? Baptizing 7 people in a hotel swimming pool. You know what’s exciting? Getting 46 people saved out on soul winning. You know what’s exciting? Giving the gospel to way more than 46 Muslims who didn’t get saved today but we’ve planted the seed. I presented the full plan of salvation to Muslim after Muslim after Muslim. And you know what, God’s words are not going to return void. And so we planted the seed and pray to God that somebody else will water. I know that there are a couple of Baptist churches in Dearborn that from what I could tell are soul winning churches. There are a couple soul winning churches, you know, I pray to God that they would get a vision to go back and knock those doors again and water those seeds and get these people that didn’t get baptized, get them baptized and get them a church and teach them to absorb all things whatsoever Christ has commanded. You know that’s what big kids get excited about. That’s what real men get excited about not a bunch of spiritual two year old who just get excited about [howling]. You know, I don’t get excited going to church that looks like the price is right. I get excited about going to a church where people are being saved and baptized. And where people are growing in the Lord and their lives are being changed. Hey, that’s where the excitement is.

But the next lesson is that there is a lack of leadership amongst God’s people across America where you can just show up and round people up that have never been soul winning and just get them going. We want to do this in other parts of the country just because we had such a great success. But not only that, we’ve learned, hey, don’t believe everything the media tells you. Don’t believe what you read on the internet. Take it with a grain of salt, okay.

We learned that fear can stop you from serving God and we should never allow that to happen. The lesson is that Christians ruin their testimony with Muslims in so many ways. That was just one example that I gave you.

We learned of course that soul winning works as it always has and always will. And last but not least, we learned that the mission field is right here in America. This is the mission field. Look what it says in John 4:35,

“Say not ye, there are yet four months, and then cometh harvest? Behold, I say unto you, lift up your eyes, and look on the fields; for they are white already to harvest. And he that reapeth receiveth wages, and gathereth fruit unto life eternal that both he that soweth and he that reapeth may rejoice together.”

Don’t tell me that hey, 3 months from now is when the soul winning is going to happen. Or 300 miles from here or 3000 miles from here or wherever, you know. Hey, lift up your eyes. Look around, the mission field is right here. And it’s not just here in America in the sense that it’s in Dearborn, it’s here in Phoenix. It’s here in Tempe, its right here. Now here is what’s so silly. People will go through so much effort and spend so much money and time and energy to go to a distant country to do soul winning and then they won’t do any soul winning here. Save a few 100 grand, save a trip. It’s all right here, I mean why don’t we do what we have right in front of us and then let’s talk about taking it somewhere else. Why don’t we do what’s here. The mission field is coming to us every day. People are moving to this country everyday from all over the world. You want to reach India with the gospel? Its right here, its Tempe. You want to be a missionary to China? No, you need to quit talking about China and start talking about China Town. I want to see you in China Town before we talk about you going to China. Don’t tell me about going to Africa until you go to what I affectionately call “Little Africa”. You know, we have places in Phoenix where there are all kinds of African immigrants and refugees constantly cycling through from all over Africa. Don’t tell me about you wanting to be a missionary to Mexico until you can be a missionary to the Mexican parts of the town right here in Phoenix Arizona, it’s all right here. What country do you have a burden for? It’s all here in America. Most of it is here in Phoenix.

Now listen to me, earlier I talked about the fact that there were no beheadings on Friday, there were no stonings. There wasn’t even so much as an empty water bottle thrown. No one even yelled at us. No one even threatened us. Nothing. I mean even when we told people, you’re not saved, you’re going to go to hell, you know, we did it nicely and gently and explained them from the Bible. It was still hey, have a good day, God bless you. But here is the thing, my friend, the reality is that if we were over on their turf and I ran or something, they would kill us. So I don’t want you to misunderstand me that I am up here saying that Islam is a religion of peace because it’s not. And you say, ‘well, how do you know that they’ll kill you if you were in Iran, Pastor Anderson, how do you know that’s not a lie like Dearborn was a lie. Here’s how I know it’s not a lie. Because Number 1: The Quran, flat out says in many places, I’ve read it myself, ‘slay them’, and over and over again, about how any Muslim who is going to convert needs to be slain and the people who are trying to convert them need to be slain. It’s in the Quran itself, number 1. But number 2: Because I have communicated with people living in Iran and I communicated with them very in-depth and spoken to people, multiple people, unrelated to one another who live in Tehran itself, the capital of Iran, who said, that if you are a Christian and you’ve always been a Christian, then you are totally fine to live in Iran. They are not going to kill you, persecute you if you are a Christian and you’ve always been a Christian, you are allowed to be a Christian in Iran. Because if we look at the demographics of Iran, there are Christians in Iran. But here is what they said. If you try to convert Muslims, you will be hanged. And if you are a Muslim who converts to Christianity, you will be hanged. So the persecution is real, the danger is real. When the Muslims take power, they are violent, they do kill people for soul winning or for converting. And other parts of the world, I’ve heard the same thing from people who actually live there not just some media source or some right wing radio host or some mainstream media.

So here is my question then. Because the Bible real clearly says in Matthew chapter 10, “If they persecute you in the city, flee into another.”He said, look, shake the dust off your feet, right? If they won’t receive the gospel, if they don’t want to hear your message, then shake of the dust and go to the next place. That’s what Jesus said in Mathew 10. He said, “If they persecute you in the city, flee to another.”

So here is my question then. Why would you want to go over to their turf and risk your life and risk your neck and literally risk being killed and have to learn a foreign language and have to travel to an unfamiliar place and go over there and be lucky to give the gospel to a few people or maybe sneaking around in underground and you’re going to give the gospel to 10 people. Why don’t you just go to Dearborn, Michigan and witness them on our turf? Where it’s totally safe? Where there is no danger of being beheaded, where there is no danger of being hanged, where there is no danger of violent reprisals? Why are we not doing it here where we can do it? And guess what? Here, most of them speak English. What are we doing? Its right here!

But people would love to just throw their money at something. You know, they don’t want to go across the street to witness to somebody so they throw money in the plate to send some bozo to another country, who, you don’t even know if that guy is even a real soul winner. Because a lot of these missionaries are total bozos. I wish I could tell you that all these missionaries are just, they’re tearing it up and they’re lighting the world on fire with the gospel. But you know a lot of these missionaries are a joke. And I’m not trying to be cynical. I’m just being realistic, my friend. And you know how I know they are a joke? Because they don’t go soul winning here. You try to get them out for soul winning, it sound it’s like pulling teeth.

You know, missionaries, ‘hey, brother, God bless you, praise the Lord, Hallelujah! Can I come display my slideshow in your church? “No, but you can go soul winning with me.” “Ah!“ “Let’s go soul winning, I want to see you in action. I want to watch you give the gospel to people. I want to see what you can do.” “Oh well, I am busy, oh, you know, I’m washing my hair…”

But you know what? If they won’t do it here, they won’t do it there. Period. End of story. Because it’s harder there than it is here. Hey! If you can’t do it, if you can’t run with the footman, you’re not going to be able to contend with the horses, the Bible says. And you know what? First before we talk about your big expedition in the heart of Iran with the gospel, and in to Iraq and Saudi Arabia with the gospel, first tell about how you witness to all the Arabs in Dearborn first and now you run out of them and now you’re going to go take it over there. Because you know what, that’s what Jesus did. Jesus ran out of cities. Jesus and his disciples, in three and a half years went to all the towns and villages cities of Israel. They went to all of them. And he said, “go not into the way of the gentiles and in any city of the Samaritans enter ye not, but go rather to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” And they finished the task, they finished the job and then they said, okay now, we’re going to all the world.

You know what? I’m all for missions, I love missions. When I grew up as a little kid, I wanted to be a missionary. I studied foreign languages. I wanted to go to the mission field. Then I went to the mission field and I was a little disillusioned by some of the things that I saw over there. There are good missionaries but there are more bad missionaries than good missionaries, sad to say. But I realized, wait a minute, its right here. The home base is falling apart. Look!

Why do we think that we need to have a church send out 50 missionaries all over the world when your own city is going to hell in a hand basket? You’ve given over your city to the filthy Sodomites. I mean you are failing miserably at home. And I just decided I’m starting a church in America because the home base needs help. And it needs help more than it did when I started this church. And look at all the sheep without a shepherd. Look, we need, instead of me travelling to Michigan and rounding up 60 people and let you know we need some pastor in Michigan, better round up 60 people and let’s go to Dearborn and do it. And round up a 100 people. And we need a pastor in every city in America to get excited, to get on fire and you know what, I pray to God that our church can train out, you know, we trained three pastors and we hope to train many more in the future. I hope we can just train them and send them out, send them out, send them out. I want to train and send off 100 preachers out of this church to go all over America and to go big and to make big sacrifices and to do great things for God and to see many thousands and millions of people saved, and to do something great for God because it is so easy. It is right there. I mean God has set before us an open door.

Well, let’s go beat our heads against the wall in some distant country where we don’t know the language and spend years in a language school and hand out tracts because we don’t know how to talk the language and blah blah… And invite people over to dinner 500 times before we can build their confidence. You can’t just..Every missionary talk to you is like, “Oh, well, where I am at, soul winning doesn’t work.”

And then you go there and try and it works. “Oh, you’re kidding! Soul winning doesn’t work here in Germany because they have these intercom systems just ruin soul winning.”

I’ll push those intercom buttons and say, “get down here and listen to the gospel” though I don’t say like that. But I’m saying, look, you know what, sometimes you talk in intercom and say, “Hey, I’m from so and so church,” you know, sometimes they will come down and talk to you through the intercom. Or guess what, forget the intercom, walk down the street and find people that are walking down the street. Or go to the neighborhood that’s so poor they can’t afford the intercom and knock all those doors. Where there is a will, there is a way and losers just make excuses. “Nah, that can’t be done and oh, in this part of the world, you don’t understand, Pastor Anderson. You can’t just walk up and give them the gospel. That just doesn’t work.”

No, you got to get to know them, you got to build their trust, you got to build their courage, you got to bring food over to their house and invite them over 5000 times and then you start out just real soft by like a baby praying and saying “In Jesus name, Amen.” You know, kind of see how that goes. Let that sink in for a while. Look, I’m sorry, I grew up in an independent Baptist, this is not how missionaries talk. I know I’m exaggerating but you know, the essence is there.

But you know what works everywhere on this planet? Walking up to people and giving them the gospel. ‘No, I tried and it didn’t work.’ Yeah, you didn’t try it long enough. Go do it for 10 hours. Go do it every day for 2 weeks straight and if you don’t come back with somebody saved then I’m a monkey’s uncle. Because you know what, or maybe you are not saved or you don’t know what you’re doing or you don’t know the Bible or the gospel or you’re not filled with the Holy Spirit, I don’t know what. The problem’s not the gospel, the problem is you.

I’m telling you my friend, it’s not necessarily always easy but it can always be done but you know what, in America, it is easy. The door is wide open and we, and again, I’m not saying hey, I don’t believe in missions. You know what, I know some guys right now that they are talking about how they want to start churches in the Philippines and other parts of the world and you know what, I think that’s awesome. I think that’s great. You know, guys have our style of soul winning and our style of church planting and preaching. And they are talking, “hey, you want to go start churches in Philippines?” You know what, that’s awesome. I want to see that happen. That’s so great. All over the world, let’s do it. But you know what, let’s not get so into that, that we just ignore what’s right in front of us, what’s right around us. The mission field is right here in America. Yeah, you go to their turf, you know what, it’s true. They are going to chop your head off or hang you. So why not do it here where they are on our turf and they have to be nice to us. It just makes sense. Sorry to confuse you with the Bible and make so much sense this morning but these are the true sayings of God.

Let’s rise and have a word of prayer. Father we thank you so much for the amazing day that we had on Friday, Lord and you really did exceeding abundantly above all that we could ask for. Thank you Lord. If we would have half the success, if we would have 30 people show us and 23 saved and 3 baptized, Lord, I would have been thrilled. But you did exceedingly abundantly above all that we could ask or think and just brought in an amazing group of wonderful nice people that love you, that wanted to do the work, Lord, and you bought in the harvest, Lord and you get all the glory. It doesn’t go to anyone personal, Lord. It was you that got glory in the church by using the team, Lord, through your Holy Spirit and we thank you so much for that. And Father I pray that the lessons that I was able to share this morning from that wondrous event would sink in, Lord and that people here in Phoenix and people around the world who are listening to this sermon, Lord, would be motivated and inspired and would learn the lessons from Dearborn. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.

 

 

Wednesday, March 09, 2016

Being a Psalm 23 Husband

Video

December 7, 2014

Psalm 23 is one of the most famous passages in the Bible of course. Turn if you would to Ephesians Chapter number 5 and I want to preach about being a Psalm 23 husband and I did a short version of this at the Burbanks wedding but I wanted expand on this to do a full sermon out of it because of the fact that this passage is such a powerful passage. It’s a passage that everybody knows. Psalm 23 is something that we’ve all heard. A lot of us memorize it when we were kids. I know it was one of the first things that I’ve ever memorized as a kid. And if there’s someone’s depth on the Bible, it’s amazing how you can read something over and over again. And there’s always more there. I think about how many times I’ve read the Chapter like Genesis Chapter 1 but then you’re constantly reading here and finding new things. I want to point out, first of all on Ephesians Chapter 5, starting verse number 22. The Bible reads, “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the Church and gave himself for it.

So, in this passage, God uses Christ and the church as an illustration of husband and wife. And he says here that husbands should love their wives as Christ also loved the church, and that the wives should be subject unto their husbands just as the church is subject unto Christ in all things. And by the way, I want to point out, we don’t believe at our church in this idea of universal church made up of all believers. That’s what a lot of people think they in when it comes from, it’s just a misunderstanding of the word church. If you let the Bible define the word church, it’s a congregation. Because in Psalm 22:22, it says, “in the midst of the congregation will I sing praise unto Thee.” And in Hebrews Chapter 2, it says, “in the midst of the church, I will sing praise unto Thee.” Quoting that verse. So we’ve let the Bible divides of a church as a congregation, are we congregated with all believers in the world right now? Absolutely not.

So as were are (NOT CLEAR), somebody will tell you, “This is church is talking right now. This church… “ No, that’s not church. That’s not an assembly of people or congregation of people. And a lot of times, people will say, “We’re the church.” Meaning that they can just go out and be by themselves somewhere and that’s church. No. Yes, we are the church when we congregate, when we assemble, when we’re here gathered together with the Church. But a lot of people have this idea of a Universal Church. Now, by the way, the word Catholic means universal. And so Catholic means universal, the Protestants came along and said, “Well, we don’t believe in a visible universal church. It’s invisible.” So we believe in the invisible church. But I believe in the literal, local Church. Now, people will take a passage like this word says, “ Christ is the head of the church .” And those say, “See that? The church! You know, church is singular.” But here’s the thing about that. It says the husband is the head of the wife. Is there only one wife? Is there a universal wife? So if it says the husband is the head of the wife, what are we talking about? That every husband is the head of his wife. As an institution, not a literal one husband-and one wife, but rather that every husband is the head of every wife that he has. He only has one, of course. Somewhere that is kind of weird. But think about this. Christ is the head of every church is what it means is what it means. You know it this church, Christ is the head of the church. And if we’re in another church, Christ ought to be the head of that church. So it’s not that there’s a universal church. Part of the proof for that is that the word “church” is more often than not, plural in the New Testament. So if it’s just one universal church, how could you have churches. And yet the word “churches” is used more in the Bible than the singular word “church.” So what we have today in the world is not one church, but churches. Now, someday, all believers will be congregated together. That’s called eterapture. You know when will be caught up together. Yet, then we are all going to be united with all believers from all over the world when we are all caught up together. But until then, no, we’re not united with all believers. We are in separate churches. That has nothing to do with the sermon tonight but I just wanted to throw that out as we’re looking at this passage. Notice that Christ and the church is a picture of husband and wife. Now, Jesus Christ said in John 10 verse 11, “I am the good shepherd. The Good Shepherd giveth His life for the sheep.” Then He said in verse 14, “I am the good shepherd, and know my sheep and am known of mine.” Let me point out that He didn’t say I’m a good shepherd. He said I’m the good shepherd. And remember Psalm 23, one of the most famous passages in the Bible, starts out saying, “The Lord is my shepherd.” And Jesus said, “I’m the good shepherd.” And in Hebrews Chapter 13 verse 20, it says, “Now the God of peace, that brought again from the dead our Lord Jesus, that great shepherd of the sheep, through the blood of the everlasting covenant.”

So Jesus, by the way, I have to give proof of the deity of Christ because Jehovah, the LORD, you know all capital, L O R D, there in Psalm 23 verse 1, said, “The LORD is my shepherd” and then Jesus said, “I’m the good shepherd.” Because He’s the Lord. Now, if we go back to Psalm 23, let’s see what we can learn from this passage. If Jesus represents the husband in the relationship, and if husbands are to supposed to love their wives as Christ loved the church, then we as husbands should take an example from Jesus on how to be a good husband, right? Because we should look at how Jesus loves the church, and then, that should be how we love our wives. “Husbands love your wives as Christ loved the church.”

In Psalm 23, we see Jesus Christ as the good shepherd, and His love and care for the church or a husband’s love and care for the wife. And I submit to you this, and I know this sounds maybe like a tall order for a little tiny chapter like Psalm 23. I feel that Psalm 23 has all the elements that you need to be a great husband. I think it’s all right there in this passage, even though Psalm 23 isn’t traditionally a marriage passage. You know Ephesians 5 is where you turn or maybe you turn to Colossians 3. Most people wouldn’t think to turn to Psalm 23 to talk about marriage. But I believe that Psalm 23 contains all of the elements that you need to be a great husband and to love your wife as Christ loved the church. It’s all right here in Psalm 23.

I have six points tonight because there are 6 verses. And each verse gives a different aspect of what we should be doing as husbands to love our wives and to be a Psalm 23 husband.

Now look at verse number 1, first of all. It says, “The Lord is my shepherd. I shall not want.” Now, let me start out by defining the word “want” for you. It means “to lack.” When he says “I shall not want,” if you study every time the word “want” is used in the Bible, it’s things that are wanting, or things that are lacking, things that are missing. And so, when the verse says “The Lord is my shepherd, I shalt not want,” what is He saying? I’m not going to lack anything, I have everything I need. So number 1, in order to be a great husband, in order to be a Psalm 23 husband, you have to be a provider.

What does it mean to provide? To make sure that your wife does not lack what she needs – food and clothing. Now in 1 Timothy 5:8, you know I have to turn there, but the Bible says, “If any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel.” So God commands us to provide for our household and to take care of our household. The Bible says that Christ nourished and cherished the church. Now, let me ask this. What does it mean to nourish? Food. Nourishment is food. It’s the job of the husband to provide food. To put food on the table. To provide, so that his wife will not want anything. That she will have what she needs. And the Bible clearly states back in the Book of Exodus, I believe it’s in Chapter 21, that the husband must give his wife food, clothing and perform the duty of marriage – talking about the physical relationship. These three things must be done by every husband for his wife. Provider of food, clothing and of physical relationship. That’s what the Bible teaches in Exodus 21 and right here, we see, that the husband, first and foremost in this chapter, needs to be a provider. We live in a day where husbands don’t want to provide for their wives. But of deadbeat husbands out there, they don’t want to work hard. They don’t want to pay the bills. And sometimes, there are even husbands that literally stay home, and are jobless, and their wife goes out and makes all the money. That is a backward situation that needs to be fixed as soon as possible if somebody’s in that situation.

We as men, say, “I’m an old-fashioned, traditional.” No, we as men, need to fulfil that role of being the provider, and we need to wear the pants in that family. Let me tell you something. The one paying the bills, the one who makes the rules. That is the way life works in general. And we as men need to be a provider. Our wife should be able to say, “my husband is providing and I shall not want.”

I’m not saying that you’re going to have caviar and everything else. But I’m saying that it’s the husband’s job to provide and make sure that his wife does not want, and is not lacking what she needs.

Number 2. Look at verse number 2. It says, “He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters.”

Secondly, a husband should not only provide but he should provide peace and stability. Have you noticed that sometimes when things go bad or you’re in a crazy situation, sometimes, women tend to be more emotional than men and get a little more worked up. Ladies tend to panic, get a little more worked up and upset. And it’s our job as a husband to provide calm and stability and to bring peace to the situation.

Now turn to Matthew Chapter 8. Let’s see this from Jesus. While you’re all turning there, let me quote for you James 1:8. “A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.” And the Bible says in the same passage, “Let not that man think that he shall receive anything of the Lord.” We should not be unstable. Jacob said to Reuben in Genesis 49, “Unstable as water, thou shalt not excel.” If we’re going to excel, we need to be stable. The Bible says we should be “steadfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.” We need to be stable. We need to be firm. We need to be like a rock. We need to be founded on the rock of the Lord Jesus Christ and not be like water and the shifting sands. We need to provide stability. Listen to me. Women today are looking for stability. They want a husband to keep things stable and peaceful and calm and set their minds at ease. They want to be able to rely on their husband and fully trust in their husband, just like we trust in the Lord Jesus Christ to take care of us. Women want to be able to have a reliable husband that they can trust and one that is going to bring peace and stability.

Look at Matthew Chapter 8 verse 24. Here, we have Christ and the church here. It says, “Behold, there arose a great tempest in the sea, insomuch that the ship was covered with the waves: but he was asleep. And his disciples came to him, and awoke him, saying, Lord, save us: we perish. And he saith unto them, Why are ye fearful, O ye of little faith? Then he arose, and rebuked the winds and the sea; and there was a great calm.”

Here, Jesus literally brings calm to the storm and he calms them down. He doesn’t panic and flip-out. He calms them down and brings literal calm. But we as husbands need to spiritually be able to say “peace, peace be still” and just emotionally calm down the storm, and calm things down and be peaceful. We shouldn’t be panicking and “what are we going to do? I don’t know what to do.” We need to have game plan. We need to be a leader. We need to take charge, to take responsibility and try to bring stability that we might lead our wife beside the “still waters” and make her “lie down in green pastures” and calm her down, and create a peaceful and stable atmosphere. And bring stability to her life, that’s part of our job as a husband.

Number 3. Look at verse number 3 of Psalm 23. Keep your fingers on Psalm 23 because that’s we’re going to be throughout the night. It says in verse 3, “He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake.”

Number 3: the husband is to be the spiritual leader. He restores the soul and he leadeth in the paths of righteousness for the sake of our Lord Jesus Christ. That’s what the husband needs to do. Not only number 1: be a provider. Number 2: bring peace and stability. But number 3: to be the spiritual leader. The Bible teaches in 1 Timothy Chapter 3 that if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God? That’s why the pastor is supposed to be “one that ruleth well his own house, and has faithful children that are in subjection with all gravity” because of the fact that ruling your home is similar to being the pastor of a church in many ways. Because you’re the shepherd of the church. That’s what “pastor” means. Remember “the Lord is my shepherd” but the husband is the shepherd of the wife and his sons also. And the husband is the spiritual leader of the wife. He’s there to lead her in the paths of righteousness.

If you would, go back to Ephesians 5. Because in Ephesians Chapter 5, we see the same thing. A lot of this stuff comes up again in Ephesians 5 and these two passages really call for many each other well. But in Ephesians Chapter 5, it says in verse number 25, “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, that he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.”

Don’t you see the spiritual leadership there? Of saying “washing and cleansing and purifying there.” Leading in a righteous path. And we as men, whether you’re a preacher or not, whether you’re going to the ministry or not, we as men, should actually preach the Bible to our wives, and to our children. Even if you’re not a pastor of a church, everybody is the pastor of their family. If you’re a husband that’s there, you need to be teaching your wife the Bible. You say, “she knows more Bible than me.” Shame on you then. It’s time for you to catch up. Time for you to get caught up and get in this book and read it twice as much as her and get to where she can ask you at home when she has a question because you know the Bible better than her. We as men, need to take the lead spiritually, and I don’t want your wife to get less spiritual. I want you to get more spiritual, and be the leader that you need to be. And not let her be the spiritual leader in the home and let her do that. You need to take over, buddy. You need to get in this book, and you need to say, as for me in my house, we will serve the Lord. You need to be leading in the paths of righteousness.

Number 4. Look down at your Bible there in Psalm 23. It says in verse 4, “Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me.” He puts her in safety or he’s a protector according to verse 4. Though she walks through the valley of shadow of death will fear no evil because he is with her. It’s our job as husbands to protect our wife.

Turn if you would to Luke 22. While you’re turning there all, I’ll read these modern scriptures. But in John 10:14, Jesus said, “I’m the good shepherd and know my sheep and am known of mine. As the Father knoweth me, even so know I the Father.” Watch this, “and I lay down my life for the sheep.” So Jesus said I’m the good shepherd, I’ll down my life for the sheep. And you what the Bible says in Ephesians 5:25? “Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”

So, shouldn’t the husband be willing to lay down his life for the wife? He needs to be the one who risks his life to protect his wife. He needs to be a protector and to provide protection to the point where she will fear no evil because he is with her, and he is there to protect her.

Women should be able to rely on their husband to be a protector. Now you’ll say to Pastor Anderson, “how am I going to be a good protector?” This could be different for different people, different situations, different circumstances, different places that you live, different countries, different cultural divides. But if you think about it, having a weapon might be advisable for being a good protector. Having weapon would be a good place. Maybe even just learning some basic fighting skills. And you say, “Oh men, that is so carnal and wicked.”

But the Bible says that God teaches my hands to war, and my fingers to fight. So there’s nothing wrong with learning martial arts, with learning how to fight, learning how to use weapons and so forth. Now you say, “well, but you know, no Christians..” Somebody looked at my gun today and said that it was an abomination. What’s this protests? He pointed at my gun and said, “That’s an abomination to Jesus.”

So how of me is an abomination? But the pointing at this gun and saying that it’s an abomination. People are being brainwashed today. Let me just show you some key scriptures on having a weapon. It says in Luke 22 verse 35, we’ve got to go here because, otherwise, people will say, “Get out of the Old Testament!” So I’ve got to start with the New Testament. Luke 22:35, it says, “And he said unto them, When I sent you without purse, and scrip, and shoes, lacked ye any thing? And they said, Nothing. Then said he unto them, But now, he that hath a purse, let him take it, and likewise his scrip: and he that hath no sword, let him sell his garment, and buy one.” Is God against us owning weapon in the New Testament? Jesus said “now that I’m going to the cross, I want you to have a sword, I want you to have a weapon. If you don’t have sword, sell your garment and buy one.” And you say, “Oh, that wasn’t a literal sword, that was just the sword – the spirit the word of God.” But look what is says in verse 38. It says, “they said, Lord, behold, here are two swords. And he said unto them, It is enough.” So look, two swords is enough? Zero’s not enough. Now you say, “Pastor Anderson, I can’t afford a gun.” Then you need at least to have a good knife or a machete or a chain saw, a battle axe, a ninja’s car. You have to have something. It’s a good idea. Do you know what actually is a really effective weapon? A baseball bat. Very cheap. Very easy to get. When I was first married? My wife and I were very poor, and I did not have a gun for a long time. We were too poor. Guns were expensive and we barely (unclear) and I had a metal baseball bat under the bed. I mean, that’s an effective weapon, because if anything happens in the middle of the night, it’s going to be close quarters. I just grab that metal baseball bat and start swinging it.

I’m not saying bring your baseball bat to a gun fight. But I’m saying that a baseball bat is better than nothing. The Lord knows what you have and what you don’t have. He knows your financial situation. And if you’re poor, and you can’t afford a gun, then you could get some kind of a weapon, go find the lead pipes somewhere for crying out loud. It wasn’t that in somebody killed, somebody would that in the board game clue, right? I mean, what in the candle stick for crying out loud. Do something to be able to defend. You say, “well, I’ll just kind of rely on the Lord to protect me.” You know what? People in the Bible always relied on the Lord to protect them but they also built a wall around the city when God told them to. And they also built machines of war. And they also learned how to use swords and shields and things. So yes, we’re going to rely on the Lord. Here’s a key verse. “The horse is prepared against the day of battle but safety is of the Lord.” So we should prepare. But at the end of the day, we trust the Lord. But that doesn’t mean just no preparation and trust the Lord. No. We do what we can humanly and then we rely on the Lord to do the rest. So I recommend owning a weapon.

Go to Deuteronomy 23. Now that we’ve got the New Testament. Let’s go to the Old Testament, Deuteronomy 23. And look, you say, “Well, Pastor Anderson, what gun should I buy?” I think that the best gun is a shotgun. It’s cheap. It’s effective. It’s going to stop an invader. It’s going to stop somebody. You load it with buckshot. It’s not going to spread out too crazy at close quarters. You can do a lot with it. And then, “well it only holds 7 rounds” or whatever. They call it rounds with the shotgun. I’m not really a gun-nerd. I don’t know all the right terminologies so excuse me if I’m saying it wrong. But I definitely know how to shoot my shotgun. And I’ve shot it many hundreds of times and I know that, even though it only holds 7 of the shotgun shells, each one has 9 projectiles in it if you’re running buckshot. So you can pull the trigger 7 times, and you’re sending 63 projectiles. That’s a lot of it.

So a shotgun is a good home-defence. I even joked even Joe Biden once to have a shotgun for crying out loud. Our liberal democrat Vice President tells you to buy a shotgun. If he’s telling you to do it, goodnight. Just do it. But until then, a baseball bat. Until then, a butcher knife, I don’t know, whatever.

Deuteronomy 23 verse 12, it says, “Thou shalt have a place also without the camp, whither thou shalt go forth abroad: And thou shalt have a paddle upon thy weapon; and it shall be, when thou wilt ease thyself abroad, thou shalt dig therewith, and shalt turn back and cover that which cometh from thee: For the Lord thy God walketh in the midst of thy camp, to deliver thee, and to give up thine enemies before thee; therefore shall thy camp be holy: that he see no unclean thing in thee, and turn away from thee.”

This is tying up basic camping sanitation because the children of Israel are camping for 40 years in the wilderness. They are wandering in the wilderness and they don’t have a permanent dwelling place. And he says “don’t use the restroom in the middle of the camp.” You always have to tell that to the new people that are camping. Go far from the camp to use the restroom. So he says “don’t ease yourself in the camp. You need to ease yourself abroad so you should have a paddle on the back of your weapon so that you can dig a hole to deal with that which goeth from you.” But here’s the thing, he just assumes that you have a weapon. He didn’t even tell you “get a weapon and put a paddle on it.” He just says “put a paddle on your weapon” that you already have. Because you’re normal. You are a man. You have a weapon. It’s just like expected that you have a weapon.

Some people have said, “What was this weapon that you’d have a paddle on, that you could dig with?” Obviously, was this stuck of their AK 47? It had a paddle. It had a little shovel stuck. No, I’m just kidding. Obviously, they didn’t have guns back then. But whatever weapon – whatever, the spear, or whatever. God said that they needed to have something to dig with, other than like the Swiss army knife. Because the Swiss army knife has all these different tools and things, so this is like the Swiss army weapon – the Israeli army weapon with that little thing to dig with. Whatever the weapon, I’m sure it was something sharp or something blunt or something that would hurt somebody, whatever it was. So anyway, I’m just showing you the scriptures, to show that Deuteronomy 23 kind of assumes that the children of Israel have weapons and then Jesus is saying if you don’t have one, buy one. And again, I’m not telling you to go put yourself in a financial straits and borrow money to go buy weapons. I’m not even telling you to sell your garment and buy one because honestly, you can’t really sell garments today bringing amount of money, unless you’re wearing a Meg coat. If you own a Meg coat and you don’t have a weapon, by all means, sell it and buy a shotgun. But otherwise, just get something and then, you slowly upgrade your weapon. Start with the baseball bat. You move up to the katana. You move up to the shotgun, then you need the bazooka. No, I’m just kidding. I mean, a shotgun is a great home-defence. The only downside of the shotgun is you can’t really take it with you, as easily as a handgun. Most times you just use it for home-defence, because at night, it’s when evil people do their thing at night.

So, anyway, be a protector. Learn some basic fighting. Don’t just be so (unclear) that you can’t even learn a little bit of fighting, and learn a little bit of shooting. And just kind of man up a little bit and it’s going to be good for you anyway. Your wife’s going kind of like you more anyway when you do that. And then, you could be a better protector, and she can feel safe for that hour with her.

But let’s go to the next scripture verse 5. It says, “Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.”

So far, in the passage, we’ve seen that the husband should be a provider. He’s to provide peace and stability. He should be the spiritual leader. He should be the protector and gives safety. But you know what? That’s not enough to make you great husband. Just paying the bills, leading spiritually, protect, provide stability. Calm down! That’s not really everything it takes to be a good husband, is it? Because where’s the love? Where’s the fun. Where’s the friendship? Where’s the relationship? Where’s the affection? Where are the good times? Being married is not just some business agreement. You cook and clean, and I pay for everything. That’s not really the way that you propose, right? Where would that is, somebody you proposed that’s why you’re still single. But marriage also is a friendship. Go to Psalm of Solomon. In Psalm of Solomon, she talks about her husband and she says, “this is my beloved and this is my friend.” So she says my husband is my friend. And there’s an aspect of marriage that is about pleasure and about joy and friendship and having a good time and loving each other. Not just “I’m doing my job as a husband.” You need to actually also bring some joy and happiness to your wife. And as the Bible says, “Cheer up your wife.” Bring some cheer to her life.

Doesn’t Jesus Christ bring joy unto us? He gives joy – unspeakable and full of glory. And the Holy Spirit is called the Oil of Gladness. And the Bible says “the joy of the Lord is our strength.” So the Lord brings us joy. We as a husband should try to strive and bring joy to the lives of our wife and make her life enjoyable, and give her pleasure and fun. What does the Bible say in Psalm 23 verse 5? You’re in Psalm of Solomon, stay there. But in verse 5, it said “thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies.” What’s this? “thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over.”

When I see the phrase “my cup runneth over,” you know what that is? That’s extra. That’s not the minimum. That’s not just “I shalt not want.” Because if I have a cup, then I shalt not want. When my cup runneth over, that’s something extra. That’s additional blessing.

Being anointed with oil isn’t something that you need for survival. Survival is food and raiment. Let us be there with content. That is going to make us survive. But anointing our head with oil is something that is for joy, the oil of gladness. It’s something that’s cosmetic or something that is just for enjoyment or beauty or something that is beyond the survival minimalistic needs of our lives. The oil and also just the cup running over, and just preparing the table before me. When I read that verse, I think of spreading out a picnic because when I think of “walking through the valley of the shadow of death” in the previous verse and then “preparing a table before her in the presence of the enemies.” It’s like, you picture being in a valley and you make a picnic and you feel safe that hour with me. That’s what I get from this passage.

So I think verse 4 shows us the aspect of giving joy and pleasure, doing something special, something above and beyond, something where the cup is running over, not just the minimum. Forget half-full, half-empty, the running over cup of bonus. Psalm of Solomon. And really, we could almost turn anywhere in Psalm of Solomon. And we could really read the whole book of Psalm of Solomon and see this aspect of marriage – the joy, the fun, the excitement, the love, the friendship, the intimacy. It’s all there in the Book of Psalm of Solomon. Let’s just look at a few highlights from Chapter 7 and 8. It’s hard to pick a section, but just a few highlights. Verse 9 of Chapter 7 says, “And the roof of thy mouth like the best wine for my beloved, that goeth down sweetly, causing the lips of those that are asleep to speak. I am my beloved's, and his desire is toward me. Come, my beloved, let us go forth into the field; let us lodge in the villages. Let us get up early to the vineyards; let us see if the vine flourish, whether the tender grape appear, and the pomegranates bud forth: there will I give thee my loves. The mandrakes give a smell, and at our gates are all manner of pleasant fruits, new and old, which I have laid up for thee, O my beloved.”

So here we see just as sweet, loving relationship, of planning, of a nice outdoor activity where they’re going to go down to the fields, in the villages, in the vineyards. And they’re going to eat fruits together, new and old, that have been especially prepared. Again, the image of a picnic kind of comes to mind. And a lot of people might think, a lot of husbands might think, “Man, forget the cup running over. I’m just trying to pay the bills, or just scrape and buy.” There’s nothing wrong with that because I’ve been there. I remember the early days of being married. That’s how it was, and you scrape and buy, and you pay check to pay check. And you don’t have money for the thrills. I remember the time when I could never afford to take my wife out to eat. Until times that we went out to eat, we would (unclear) to my parents and they were paying. And every Friday night, we’d go over to my parents’ house and we’d go out with my parents and they paid, and we would hang out at their house. And that was our out to dinner night because we couldn’t afford to go out, and go out to dinner because we were just paying the bills. Just getting by.

So look, God didn’t expect you to be a wealthy man, to be able to just wine and dine your wife all the time, and spend all these money. For this to me doesn’t sound expensive – preparing some fruit, preparing some things, going out on a picnic, getting outside. By the way, a lot of people, they think they’re going out a date just equals out to dinner. I’m going to go out on a date with my wife. It’s out to dinner. I’m going to out and date every week with my wife. It’s out to dinner. Out to dinner. Out to dinner. Out to dinner, out to dinner. And honestly, it’s expensive. Going out to dinner is expensive and it also gets boring, and it’s not usually the healthiest option. Usually, you can make more nutritious better food at home. My wife and I do go out to dinner on dates from time to time. But honestly, there are a lot of other nice ways to have fun and be together and make memories than just going out to eat. I’m just thinking over the course of the last few months, and I’m thinking of the most memorable fun times that I’ve had with my wife – we’re not out to dinner. She’s like “no, it was the dinner.”

I can think of all kinds of fun, exciting memories that we made going places and doing fun things, and none of it, none of the highlights were being at we’re being out to dinner and spending bunch of money. In fact, the ones that we did that we’re most fun were free or cost very little. So it’s not just about just blowing a bunch of money. And if you have money and you can blow some money, well, women like that too. But there are a lot of things that you can do. And by the way, this can even go for singles that are dating. Basically, you don’t always have to just blow a whole bunch of money. And that doesn’t always impress the girl anyway. Because anybody can pull out their wallet and buy some expensive dinner. You could be a little more creative. Do something a little more memorable. You say “What? Give me some examples.”

I’m thinking back about the dates, and a lot of them, I can’t really share with you. It’s too personal. It’s too private. And my wife is saying “no, don’t tell.” Some of them was illegal. I’m just kidding. Anyway, but it was creative, and we had fun. See me after the service. I’ll tell you some ideas. But anyway, we did all kinds of cool stuff and fun stuff but honestly, you can go out, you can get outside. And when you look at this, they’re outside, aren’t they? In Psalm of Solomon 7. You can get outside and we have so many wonderful things in this area to do outside. In the winter, in Phoenix, the weather is perfect everyday. Beautiful weather everyday. You can go hiking. You can go on a bike ride. You can go, “well, we’re not that athletic.” True, but you can still go out and have a picnic, take a walk. If you’re not athletic enough to go on a walk, you need to get more athletic, OK? You can’t even walk. But you can go out, and basically, spend time in the outdoors, prepare a little picnic – same stuff you’re going to eat at home. But when you chop it up and get it all ready and take it outdoors to a scenic place, it all taste better. Because you’re out in nature.

Let me just give you some places around here. Kiwanis Park is like a mile and half or two from my house at the (unclear). And it’s a couple of miles from here. The Kiwanis Park has just all these beautiful trails and the little artificial lake. They have little paddle boats you can rent and paddle around the lake. (Unclear) lake has the same thing. You’ve got all these bike trails. You’ve got all these nature trails. You’ve got all these hiking trails right in Phoenix. So don’t have to spend a bunch of money.

In the summer, you have to go far to be outdoors because it’s so hot. But this time of year, it’s paradise. Go wherever you want. Get out there. Get outside. Have some fun. And it’s good for you anyway. It’s healthy anyway. And be a little more creative of how to have a good time with your spouse. Go out and spend time. You say, “I’m poor and we can’t afford a trip to the zoo.” You know what the poor man’s zoo is? The pet store. You go to pet store and you just don’t buy anything. Just look at all the animals and treat it like a zoo. When we were tiny little kids, and we were poor, we did that and they didn’t even know the difference. Little kids, you show more of the animals and the puppy. Here’s the reptile house kids. It’s all pet codes. It’s all pet smart.

And honestly, sometimes, my wife and I just go to the thrift store, and just go shopping together at the thrift store. You don’t even have to buy anything. And if you do find something cool and you end up buying it, it’s going to cost you a couple of bucks anyway. And you find that all in. Sometimes we just go there and laugh at stuff and just look at stuff. It’s our job as a husband to have some fun and bring some pleasure and joy to the lives of our spouse and not just to be this total fuddy daddy. “Yeah, I’m paying the bills” “Yeah, I’ve got the shot gun clean and loaded” and “Yeah, I provide stability here.” OK, but do you love your wife? You’re having a good time with your wife? Or are you giving her any pleasure and joy and fun? That’s also part of your job I believe. And look Psalm of Solomon is filled with it, every chapter. This type of things.

Let’s keep reading in the Chapter 8, Psalm of Solomon Chapter number 8. It says in verse 1, “O that thou wert as my brother, that sucked the breasts of my mother! when I should find thee without, I would kiss thee; yea, I should not be despised. I would lead thee, and bring thee into my mother's house, who would instruct me: I would cause thee to drink of spiced wine of the juice of my pomegranate. His left hand should be under my head, and his right hand should embrace me. I charge you, O daughters of Jerusalem, that ye stir not up, nor awake my love, until he please. Who is this that cometh up from the wilderness, leaning upon her beloved? I raised thee up under the apple tree: there thy mother brought thee forth: there she brought thee forth that bare thee.”

Those are good old days – you were born under the apple tree, instead of being born at the hospital. But it says, verse 6, “Set me as a seal upon thine heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death; jealousy is cruel as the grave: the coals thereof are coals of fire, which hath a most vehement flame. Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.”

That sounds like a business arrangement to me. Right? Just a business arrangement – roommates, business arrangement. I pay the bills, you cook and clean. No. This is a fiery relationship. This is love and affection and good times and passion. And it’s our job as a husband to provide these things for our wife, and to lead the way in this area as well. Not only to be a spiritual leader but also to lead the way to make sure that you have a good marriage. And a good marriage, in my opinion, is not just defined by no fighting. Or defined by “we’re still married.” Or defined by whatever. I’m striving for a Psalm of Solomon type marriage and a Psalm 23 type of marriage, where the cup runs over.

And again, no marriage is ever going to be perfect. Marriage has its ups and downs, and that brings me to my final point – point 6. Look at Psalm 23 verse 6. It says, “Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.”

Who does the Lord Jesus Christ represent? The husband, right? So (unclear) dwell in the house forever? This is the wife who could say “I’ll dwell in the house of my husband forever.” You know what this is? The husband needs to be there permanently and provide security. Thank God that we have eternal security. Thank God that we have eternal life. Thank God that Jesus will never leave as, go to Hebrews 13, last place we’re going to turn, that he’ll never leave us nor forsake us. But our wife should know that we are never going to leave her and should provide permanent, or she can say “surely goodness and mercy shall fall on me and I will dwell in the house of my Lord forever,” “I’ll dwell in the house of my husband forever.” Permanence, security, is what that last scripture teaches. Because marriage’s going to have its ups and downs, my friend. If you think you’re just going to be living a Psalm of Solomon lifestyle everyday, that sounds unrealistic. And if you wives are sitting there and think “well, my husband is not doing this.” Look, it’s not going to be like that everyday folks. If you’re a husband that expects that or if you’re a wife that expects that, you’re living in a dreamland. You’re watching too much TV. You’re watching too many romance movies. You’re getting all these crazy ideas in your head that it’s just everyday is just like the day we first met. Everyday is like we’re newly weds. No, that’s not life. That’s not real. In real life, there are going to be ups and downs. But that’s where the commitment comes in that says “’till death do us part.” I will never leave.

Look at Hebrews 13:4. “Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee, nor forsake thee.”

Why follow up a statement about marriage in verse 4 with that statement in verse 5? I’ll tell you why. Because the number one thing that God said not to covet is wife. Your neighbour’s wife, that’s number thing. So he says “marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Let your conversation be without covetousness; and be content with such things as ye have.” One of the number thing that you should be content with is your wife. And ladies should be content with your husband. And so the contentment in marriage will lead us not to covet someone else’s spouse and then remember “hey, he’ll never leave me nor forsake me.” Hopefully, you husbands can think of your wife that she’ll never leave you nor forsake you. It’s permanent. That’s what I love about being married. It’s just the permanence, the security. I hate to be in a relationship where I felt like I was on trial all the time, where, if I don’t do it right, if I don’t play my cards right, she’s going to be gone. Or if she doesn’t play her cards right, she’s constantly thinking “my husband’s going to leave me.” It’s good to know that you’re just both there for each other for life, and you will never leave and you have that security, and that stability, and that permanence and you can really open up and be friends and have trust. That’s what I’ talking about.

Trust is a key component. But how can you trust someone that won’t even put a ring on it. And you’re going to sit there and move in with him, sit there and open up. Look, you’re foolish. Don’t you dare. First of all, foreign occasion’s wicked thing. But second of all, as young women do not go to bed with the men that you’re not married to, you’re foolish if you do. Because foreign occasion does not equal love. Foreign occasion does not equal commitment and marriage. And you need to wait until you get married. Because there are a lot of guys that all sit there and “Oh yeah, we’re going to get married and oh yeah I love you so much!” But until it’s official, you don’t know if that commitment is real. Sometimes, there’s a lot of talk, and then he’s gone or she’s gone or whatever. It needs to be official. You need to be married. Even just from a practical standpoint. But forget that God said that He’ll kill you a lot of times. A lot of times He killed people in the Bible because they committed foreign occasion. God said that He’ll punish us severely. Whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. A lot of people committed foreign occasion in the Bible and they didn’t get killed. But a lot of people got killed. God killed 23,000 people in one day the Bible says. 1 Corinthians 10, it says that’s example for us where God poured out His judgment upon foreign occasion. So a lot of good reasons not to commit foreign occasion, my friend.

But we need a marriage that’s permanent and that’s secure. And marriages will go through ups and downs. There are going to be times when your marriage is going great. Other times, where it’s the commitment that’s keeping you together. But you ride it out. You ride out the rough times and a lot of single people are thinking like “We’ll never have rough times.” Newly weds are thinking that in ghettos. They’re engage. Those who are young and say “when I marry my wife, it’s going to be butterflies and unicorns, and there will never be a bad day, and we’ll wake up every morning and sing love Psalms to each other, and we’re going to sleep in each other’s arms. We’ll wake up together and a dove will fly out the window, of our white sheets, of our white bed and the white bedroom, and the white drapes. I’m going to step out unto the porch and open the windows unto the balcony of our terrace condominium, and the sun is shining and my husband will wake up to the smell of bacon and eggs.”

Get real. Now look. Sometimes, my marriage is like that. I’m serious. It really is sometimes. I’m kind of spoiled. My wife has brought me breakfast in bed more times than I can count. My wife is a wonderful amazing wife. But it’s not always like that. Sometimes they get ugly. I’m just kidding. No, I’m not kidding actually. Sometimes, it gets all good here. It’s just life gets ugly. Sometimes life can be rough. And people are stressed out, and your wife’s stressed out and you’re stressed out, and you’re going through bad things and you’re mad and they’re mad. And there’s anger. And then there’s hormones on the wife side of things. Go on like this all the time. And then, look, life is never going to be easy and perfect. Life’s a struggle. From start to finish. It’s a battle. It’s a struggle. So what you have to is decide is that you love your wife and that you’ll be faithful to her and true to her and that she will dwell in your house forever, and it’s “’till death do us part” and we will love each other no matter what. And when things get bad, you say “How do I get through this rough times?” You just have to go through those rough times and stay cool. Don’t jerk the steering wheel. Don’t do anything crazy. You just can’t have this type of mentality. “Uhh It’s going to be like this for the rest of our lives!!! I can’t believe I married you!” No, it’s not. Because everything will blow over and be fine. But you have to ride it out. And honestly, I can stand here. I can put my hand on the Bible, I’m not going to, but I can put my hand on the Bible and swear to you. But the Bible says we’re not allowed so I’m not going to. But I could sit here and put my hand on the Bible and swear to you that I’ve had some of the greatest times in marriage, the greatest moments, the best times, the funniest times, the most exciting time in recent years of marriage. In the last few months, in the last few years. Being a newly wed’s great. You can relive those days. You can have those times again later in marriage. But you have to stay with her. And a lot of people, what they do is when marriage gets bad, they fail. You just have to ride it out and go through the rough path and eventually, you’ll get to the good times. And honestly, the good times get gooder (better) and gooder (better) as you go. And I realized that’s bad grammar. But it really does get gooder (better) and gooder (better) as you go. Why would it get better? Because the fact that when you first married, you hardly know each other. OK, that was just me and my wife.

My wife and I just dated for a few weeks. I’m not recommending that but it was kind of a unique situation because she lived on the other side of the world, and she was here only for a few weeks. It’s a long story, but anyway. I wrote it up. You can read about it. But what I’m saying is that, you don’t know each other as well that the love isn’t as deep. Because you haven’t been through as much together. When you go through trials and tribulations together, and when you have children together, raised children together, and you have good times and bad times, and you’re there for each other. You take care of each other when they’re sick or injured or ill or in the hospital. You go through all that. You give more depth to the relationship whereas in the beginning, it wasn’t that deep. It was more shallow. I’m not saying that in a bad way. It’s just new. But the longer you’ve been together, the deeper it gets, and then when you have the great times, when you get through trials and rough patches, you have a deeper, better relationship, and honestly, you know each other better. I don’t know what to say. It just gets better. Marriage gets better and better if you stay with it. You experience good times and obviously, you need to follow the Bible and follow a good town wisdom and advice from God’s word and from successful people out of good marriage. And you go through that, and you succeed that and it gets better and better. But a lot of people bail out and they never get to experience that.

These people that sit there and get married. These Hollywood people, they get married for a couple of years, 2-3 years, 5 years. They don’t understand marriage. Because they’ve never really gone through the tough times and made it through, and come out the other side stronger and loving each other, and a deeper bond. I’m telling you, marriage is a beautiful, wonderful relationship. And we need to get these 6 things in our life as husband. I can think of anything that’s not covered in Psalm 23 to have a great marriage. I feel like it’s all here.

Here’s the thing. I’m always striving to have a sermon with actual points in it and especially if they would all letterate, and start with the same letter. That always sounded nice, but it never happened. I’m lucky to preach a sermon that even has points. Usually, my sermon is more like a stream of consciousness. But Pastor Roger Jimenez, that guy is just, point 1, point 2, point 3, and it starts with the same letter. That guy just nails it with his points. So how things are like? Man, I want to preach the Roger Jimenez style sermon, and I’ve thought that so many times, I can never get it done. I feel like tonight I’ve done it. And let me tell you why, I’ve actually figured out how to make these all start with the same letter, and it was hard. It was hard and listen, I’ve got 6 letterated points in this sermon.

Number 1: The husband SUPPLIES.
Number 2: He provides STABILITY.
Number 3: He’s the SPIRITUAL LEADER.
Number 4: He keeps her SAFE.
Number 5: He does things that are SPECIAL.
Number 6: He gives SECURITY.

You didn’t like that? Let’s do “P.”

Number 1: He PROVIDES.
Number 2: He brings PEACE.
Number 3: He’s the PASTOR.
Number 4: He’s the PROTECTOR.
Number 5: He gives PLEASURE.
And number 6: PERMANENCE.

There you go. Don’t expect that again for a few years but I alliterated it. Let’s rise and have a word of prayer.

Our Father, thank you so much for this great chapter, Lord. That’s a wonderful, beautiful chapter, Lord. And I pray that since people in the church know it so well, it would be something where every husband could pull this out as a mental checklist because they already know the passage. A lot of people already have memorized, that it would provide just a mental checklist where we could just run through. “I want to love my wife, I want to be a good husband, what’s my wife looking for, for me to treat her right and be a good husband?” and help them to just run through Psalm 23 and run through the six keys to be in a Psalm 23 husband. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.